To choose your stone, start from your intention, let colour guide you, but above all check two concrete things: hardness (for use) and seller honesty (origin, treatments). This guide gives a simple method to choose a stone you like, durable and genuine.
Many choose a stone for the intention tradition gives it (calm, energy, protection) — see our list of stones. Others simply follow a favourite colour: just as valid. The stone that attracts you is often the right one.
A decisive, very real criterion: for a daily bracelet, choose a hard stone (6.5+ on the Mohs scale: quartz, tiger's eye, aventurine). For an occasional pendant, soft stones (turquoise, malachite, howlite) are fine. See our hardness table.
A good stone is bought from a seller who states origin and treatments (heating, dyeing, stabilisation). Avoid too-vivid, uniform colours at low prices, and any "healing" promise. Our ranking of crystal healing sites helps spot serious shops.
Tumbled or raw to keep close; a bracelet for daily wear; a mounted piece (gold/silver ring or pendant) for durability — then demand the hallmark. Details in our natural stone jewellery guide.
The virtues attributed to stones are wellbeing traditions, not scientifically demonstrated, and replace no medical advice (see sources). Above all, choose a stone you like and that will last.
Start from your intention or a favourite colour, then check two concrete things: hardness (high enough for the intended use) and seller transparency about origin and treatments. The stone that attracts you is often the right one.
It's as valid a criterion as any: many choose on instinct. Just make sure the stone is hard enough for the intended use and bought from an honest seller.
A hard, affordable, lightly treated stone is ideal to start: amethyst, rose quartz, tiger's eye, aventurine or red jasper. They withstand daily wear and are easy to find genuine.
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